This week Charlie McDonnell put out a video on how he was scared and then Michael Aranda replied with a wonderful video.
I’ve had many conversations with friends about the same topic and Michael’s right: We are all scared but most of us are just better at keeping that fear to ourselves.
Earlier in the month I tweeted whilst I was reading This Side of Paradise that I’ve noticed that a lot writers have written the male protagonist to be a lot more sensitive and sentimental than how males are projected to be in society today. This shouldn’t be applied just for males, it applied for all of us, no matter who we are or who we choose to identify as.
This doubt and fear of not being good enough or being vulnerable is what makes us beautifully human.
Back in 2011 when I was struggling to finish college and wondering if I was worth anything at all, I remember watching a talk on TED by Brene Brown. In the last minutes of her video she said this: “You’re imperfect and hard wired for struggle but you’re worthy of love and belonging”
I always say this and I think I’ll keep repeating it— you can’t win with everyone. It’s not bad nor good, it’s those things that happen to just be what it is with no simplified, definitive answer nor solution.
Being scared of what others think of you, doesn’t make you weak and being weak doesn’t make you any less of anything either.
All of this, all it does makes you is human, a regular functioning one at that too.